I know this is going off the original topic a bit, but I just remembered something I read in a magazine. It was talking about how many gay women in South Africa are getting raped by "friends" who feel that all they need to make them straight is to experience "sex" with a male. There was one woman who they interviewed and she said the guy had said sorry before he raped her, but that he truely believed it was what she needed. Reporting the rape to the police seemed to make no difference, as the male members of the force seemed to side with the men's view. I can't remember where this was, but I think it was in one of the poorer black areas. It just left me feeling angry and sad at the same time.