oh trust me.....they are out there.
you must understand the question........
you are asking someone if they have gone past a safeword........gone past the point of... no......
now think about it.....your in a scene.....and you safeword out.....you say no.......anything past that point can be construed as.......rape.
now.....all this being said.........for all of the questions you may ask......
make no mistake........there will ALWAYS BE LIARS