Just reading this thread for the first time and I have to agree it was worth moving it up, thanks Silke. Aesop as always, great work.

I have to agree with the comment about being cautious with online doms. I have not had a bad experience, but being new to all this, I will be aware of what to look out for. To me, there would have to be a friendship first and anyone who wasn't interested in that, well I don't think I would want to know about it.

Thanks again Aesop, nice to get such good and honest advice.