It's not about sex

[voxelectronica]

If its his house and his computer (or even his internet connection), I suppose he has the right to request that you not visit sites he doesn't approve of.

if you need his place to stay at and you've been intimate in the past, I'm not sure what your options are other than force of personality.

He hasn't requested that I don't visit sites. It's more... I've never had to hide anything about myself. I've never had to justify it either. Most people (for whatever reason) take me as I am.

The biggest thing is that I don't want to have sex. I had surgery on my no no bits about a year ago and since then have not really wanted to engage in sex especially not vanilla.