New girl

[yama]

Welcome, from a long time sub ... sounds like the 2 of you have a wonderful mistress/slave relationship ....

You are very kind to say so, really. Thank you so much. You are right, it is certainly
a wonderful relationship. What I am not sure is that it may be called mistress/slave
relationship at all. I explained it a bit more at the Submissive's Couch Forum, in my
introductory post in the "Submissive/Slave Please introduce yourselves here" thread.
We never switch, Lila is on the top, in the position to command me to undress and
give me a whipping any time. But I am sure if I said "Not now, dear, I am not in the
mood", she would put away the whip immediately. Only I never say so, I would feel
it frustrating her love. I see formidable mistresses on the web, all in black and yielding
a hunting crop. In my relationship to Lila there is not any trace of fear. All is trust and
love. Please correct my misconceptions, I will be docile.