Hi all, i am a sub and sort of new to the lifestyle. For the last few years i read a lot of bdsm fiction, always longing for more, to connect with someone and learn how to be a sub, not just read about it.

Funny thing is, in my day to day life i am always focussed on being in control...it's exhausting though. i long to let that go, to find a dom and submit completely and know that i am pleasing him in doing so.

i have a lot to learn first though i think and i'm glad to be here