If you have the money to spend, I would suggest a silicone based lubricant, like ID Millennium. I am allergic to propylene glycol (in about every lube and creme known to man) so a silicone-based lubricant is what I have to buy, but it can double as a SUPER slick massage oil, or I imagine a base for wax play. My Master uses coconut massage oil for me, but it does NOT do anything to help in the clean up. The easiest cleanup I ever had was when I didn't have any sort of base on and he flogged the wax off (or course he also used his athame to scrape it off too). Hope this helps some!!