Quote Originally Posted by bitchybitch56 View Post
I'm a female submissive, but im worried that im getting too jealous over another submissive. since master has gotten her our private time has decreased dramatically, he often tells me that i will get it at a certin time and dont end up getting it, the new sub often gets pissy when she does not get it so she gets it more often than i do. ive tried shrugging that off but it also does not help that he gives her more attention and picks on her more than he does me, he gives her the attention he used to give to me that i no longer get. im wondering if im too jealous or if i have good reason to feel hurt, forgotten, and replaced, i do everything he asks of me, i please him more often than she does in more non sexual ways, but often have bad timing when it comes to trying to show sexual affection and get turned down, what am i doing wrong?
IMO, this is pretty common with poly, and the reason we won't do it again (among hundreds of other reasons). I'm sorry that you are going through this.. honestly, I have no useful advice as we spent 3 years poly with several different women and nothing ever helped me. My Master fucks lots of other women, BUT they are not subs and it's just casual sex- this works really well for us. If you want my brutally honest opinion- get her the hell out of your house. Just my two cents.