Just words?

[DowntownAmber]

For me, the turn on is words and phrases that only he can use and get away with, words that define his sole proprietorship over me: being called his slut, his naughty little girl, things like that. All those things are states of being only for my Dom, and that makes them exclusive and special instead of degrading.

Being humiliated by being called stupid or worthless or names in a similar vein hold no draw for me whatsoever. Humiliation like that doesn't even have a vestige of truth, it's simply mean and does nothing for me.

[Veralynne]

Being humiliated by being called stupid or worthless or names in a similar vein hold no draw for me whatsoever. Humiliation like that doesn't even have a vestige of truth, it's simply mean and does nothing for me.

Awww.... DA, I LOVE being called stupid and worthless! :-P I think words like that help with dehumanization and feeling like an object. I love to feel like property, only an object owned by my Master for His amusement.

And in terms of vestiges of truth- if you need to feel some truth behind a statement for it to be more powerful- I think it is possible with these types of words. For instance, the word "stupid", besides the general connotation, if I really need to feel some truth behind it I will think of how stupid it is considered, as a woman, to stay with a man that beats and degrades you. Often with enough abuse and humiliation of that kind combined, with my thoughts about its vestiges of truth- I can be brought to tears. Delicious.

[DowntownAmber]

Awww.... DA, I LOVE being called stupid and worthless! :-P I think words like that help with dehumanization and feeling like an object. I love to feel like property, only an object owned by my Master for His amusement.

And in terms of vestiges of truth- if you need to feel some truth behind a statement for it to be more powerful- I think it is possible with these types of words. For instance, the word "stupid", besides the general connotation, if I really need to feel some truth behind it I will think of how stupid it is considered, as a woman, to stay with a man that beats and degrades you. Often with enough abuse and humiliation of that kind combined, with my thoughts about its vestiges of truth- I can be brought to tears. Delicious.

Just another case of "to each his own." If a Dom were to call me stupid, for example, I would be inclined to pause mid-scene, raise an eyebrow, and start giggling hysterically while pointing out my SAT score at the very least. I just need to dabble in reality, I suppose.

[StormKat]

Just another case of "to each his own." If a Dom were to call me stupid, for example, I would be inclined to pause mid-scene, raise an eyebrow, and start giggling hysterically while pointing out my SAT score at the very least. I just need to dabble in reality, I suppose.

I'm totally with you on this one! I'm not stupid or dumb or worthless or any such adjective & saying that I am would just piss me off. Now there are a very select few guys who can get away with calling me a slut because for them, well, I'll be one & very happily. It's not humiliating when it's true . But I'd never take it from anyone else.