I am really interested in this topic. I love the idea of orgasm training, but I don't know how much I believe in it. Personally, my Master has ordered me to cum on command, but it's only been after some buildup and with stimulation. I mean... I can get get aroused immediately by my Master speaking to me... but I am skeptical of the possibility of actually *orgasming* with no stimulation. Oz- do you think you could actually ejaculate with no stimulation? Getting hard.. sure...

Add to this the overwhelming propensity of females to fake orgasms... I don't know. Every female I've ever been friends with/talked to, has admitted to faking it at times. I know that's not an entirely related topic, but I could imagine in a situation where you thought it would be impossible to please your Master otherwise that you would do it. And before any guys get huffy that they would "know", I've never met a man that thought a chick they had been with faked it (when I knew them to have), and I'm quite sure no one I ever faked it with knows that I did.

Buuut... I suppose I should caveat that, all the times I had faked it were not in a full BDSM relationship, and perhaps the only reason I felt it necessary to do so was because I was with men that didn't fully understand my sexual needs/desires. For my own sake, I'd love it to be possible to cum on command without stimulation, etc. In my relationship with my Master, I am more sexually fulfilled and satisfied than I ever have been... and have found it much easier to orgasm. As our relationship continues my opinions on the subject may change, and I will be interested to see what is possible for me with training. Assuming that that ever even becomes a part of my life with my Master. If so- Pearlgem, cadence, I will try to keep you up to date on whether I think this is possible... from the skeptic's point of view ;-)