Quote Originally Posted by Orgasm_Man View Post
But the main problem is that she is totally inexperienced and wants to try out her limits.
There are two conflicting concepts here.

"...she is totally inexperienced..." and "...wants to try out her limits."

There is soooooo much that won't come near her limits that she needs to do before pushing against those limits. A brand-new submissive is often in a hurry - she wants to experience everything her imagination can come up with, all those scenes she's read in books and stories...but I truly believe she should be forced to slow down. Yes, by her Dom. It is your responsibility to set the pace, to 'make' her take it slower. Discovering one's submissive self is a process. One that needs to be respected and not rushed. You'll have a better submissive for it in the long run - one who trusts deeper and will go farther than she can even conceive of right now.

I know this because that's what my Owner did with me - and according to Him, I am His IPS*.

*Indispensably Perfect Submissive