Quote Originally Posted by Orgasm_Man View Post
Thank you Aibo,Logic,angela,rachel,Matin.
I really appreciate your advice guys.
But the main problem is that she is totally inexperienced and wants to try out her limits.I am worried that I might push her over the limits..
I have asked her to read stories so that she get to know the lifestyle and find out what excites her.

A-hah! Yes been there, she was also delicate, somewhat neurotic. Even though I knew she might rush off to someone that might jump in straight, I would not get into a heavy session with a newbie rightoff.
(As it happens this is the same girl you see, er well smeared the face yet is on my avatar image.)

Instead I took her to restaurants, sightseeing places and started to build up a relationship and mutual understanding for each other. Yes she pushed and hinted, and here angela_shy described most of how I did .
In the end it took about ½ year until we did get to do what she originally had suggested.

BDSM takes time, there is no such thing as a quickie here.

Happy new year again - im off for the new years party in a few now.