"Is there any way for you to say 'id like to bow out of this poly relationship, im not comfortable' ?

also would you have any hand in what was going on, like Domming her, or submitting to her? Or would you just be watching? Or would he just be watching and Domming you two at the same time? Sorry if these are personal questions its just..it plays a big role in how you would feel emotionally."

We've agreed on him being the only Dom in the relationship, I have no want or need to Dom over another myself, Tho if the question came up to her possibly Takeing a tiny bit of control over me, I would not object to it totally..I would try it and if I did'nt like I would be able to back out of it any time

Same with if my feelings change towards the whole situation, Any of us would be able to back out of the relationship at any point, One of the major rules if someone isnt happy and it cant be resloved then we end it...with no hard feelings.

Were just trying to keep it happy, kind of like a kid testing the water with there toes for the first time *giggles*

And Thank you