Disciplining good girls

[Arria]

I agree with claire. I dislike punishment as it feels like a parenting action to me, and I am not into that sort of play.

However, I do like pain, and hubby likes to give it.

You don´t need a reason. You don´t have to do punishments "just because everybody else seems to do them".

What is appropriate and wanted in your relationship should be determined between you and your partner, not based on any valid-for-all rules (which don´t exist anyway).