It was for many of the above reasons that I labelled myself a switch for many years and I think a lot of those who are switches have similar feelings. I later realised that I was useless as a Dom (as many on this forum already know, having heard the tale many times - I was too nice and not nice in a nice way ) so decided to concentrate on being a sub.

However, I still get turned on by the thought of women tied up and gagged despite also liking that myself.

It is human nature to be contradictory...