Quote Originally Posted by Pearlgem View Post
First of all I have to apologise for raising the idea that I felt us subs were all in competition here to have the best sub credentials. I personally didn't get that impression, but when I raised the point of competition I think I was really expressing my own insecurities, wondering if I should be different from how I am because I didn't see anyone just like me.
You mean we aren't?

Lol, Oh God Pearlgem don't apologize about that because it does exist, but my Husband says that is to be expected because women always do that (sort of like a female version of "mine's bigger") no matter what we are talking about, (and if the Wise one says so, it must be true lol).

As for insecurities - we all have them, and this is the place we come to air them out.

Beautiful thread Pearlgem, and even if I can't relate to on the older submissive thing, you have hit so many truths with it that just ring true - it is always a pleasure to read your thoughts.