We are 24/7 as in we are married live together and have 2 young children, but I hardly play my role 24/7. I am a sexual submissive/slave, but when it comes to the household I run the show. I am similar in that I have many responsibilities however it is too inefficient to be in a slave mind set and accomplish all I need to in a day. My husband dedicates his time to his job and he tends to be absent minded when it comes to details that aren't related to the finance markets, politics, or world events . Child rearing is my number one focus for now, as they are both under 3, I am responsible for the cooking, cleaning, paying the bills, filing the taxes, scheduling appointments, giving massages, collaborating with my husband regarding work... If my friends and family had to guess at my bdsm role they most certainly would think I was a domme.