(Maybe 2yrs ago)

I started online talking with a Dominant on another site. it wasnt a BDSM site but it was a naughty site, where they have chat rooms and he saw something in the way i answered him and he was acturally looking for a real time submissive. So we discussed D/s, BDSM and a few other things. We talked for awhile and he started to top me just abit online, he didnt do much online because he wanted something more "in the flesh". So we just started that way. I dont remember what happened exactly but we lost touch, he was a really nice man, but wasnt the one for me at that time.

(bring you guys into the current)

Found this site, started talking to alot of ppl some in the lifestyle in rt..some online and made some really good friends on the stie. Sometime around March of last year, i started to get an itch that i couldnt scratch, i needed to feel it in real time. So i started looking for Munches(Kinky meetings of lifestylers in a vanilla settling), and i found one KFE, a North Jersey Kink Munch, and had to think long and hard if I wanted to go or not. I was so scared and very nervous, I think it took me til August 08' to decide that it was time for me to go and get out into the real life of BDSM...

So from there, ive gone to serveral munches, a few play parties..I havent been able to get to a dungeon yet because of the times that I work. Hopefully later on within this new year, I can get to go to some BDSM related events, I have a few planned.

I am extremely happy i went online and found those naughty sties, and now I totally understand why I am the way I am. Lol...