At the risk of exposing Myself as the garrulous-type, I will contribute My personal experience..

I figured out masturbation at 8, in school, thanks to a diagram on flower reproduction.. Specifically, how some flowers with both stamens and a pistil are capable of self-fertilization.. (The first time I came I thought that I risked getting Myself pregnant.. *blush*)

Anyway, My first masturbation material was about a blonde woman who was tied to a St. Andrew's cross, horizontally, and a terrible grey haired Man who tortured her.. He would mess her make-up, spit in her hair.. Urinate on her.. I could never envision Myself, though..

Anyway, after 2 sexually unsatisfying relationships, at the age of 20, I typed "bondage.com" into My address bar.. Hoping info there would help Me salvage My sex-life..

It is power-exchange that does it for Me.. Roleplay, humiliation, etiquette training.. Corsets, stilettos, thigh high cuban heeled stockings and opera
length gloves..

In regard to My training repertoire, I read a lot.. Books on BDSM, psychology, social engineering.. And I am always browing the internet, investigating the view of My peers.. This site has been entertaining, of late..