it is quite interesting reading others inputs to this thread, I too seem to fit the 'typical' description when it comes to psyche anyway.... I used to enjoy the loosing aspects of games, being caught etc also, and again diddnt connect the dots untill i looked back on it.

I also have more 'traditional' outlook on relationship dynamics than any of my friends. I only realised what was missing when i met my partner I suppose, before then other relationships haddnt worked out we diddnt click and after this i suddenly realise why!