Quote Originally Posted by snowflake View Post
Words or actions can put a sub right into a submissive mood.. like a specific phrase or direction with your eyes or hands... or just that certain look .. that you know your Dom/me is now wanting you there...

As far a sub space goes.. the ropes the delicious tools being used slowly and softly at first welling up more painful as you continue.. surpassing the state of pain i can't take to the i am now numb.. and then have to have more ...me a spanking with something that will truly hurt in time...

But i also find a scenario on the net can do it mattering how slowly i am eased into it with major description... a scenario that turns to something extreme pushing my limits .. and allowing my head to follow it as if playing it out in my mind... but it takes something special to get me there...

just my opinion

hugs
snow

thanks for the insight .. you have explained it better than i did .. a real good start is to set the mood by creating a Dom / sub feeling in the sub by use of phrases or action to set the mood would be essential to a good < scene> ...

the over all idea seems to take things slow and to bring the sub into the right mood and if done correctly the sub will be led into exploring areas of deep submissiveness .. and a real deep sense of sub space ....

and it seems like the use of ropes is a great lead in to other pleasurable activities ..

thanks for your insight ..

Jim