Begging

[BryansGrrrl]

I've found that most of my begging really only involves the word "Please".

I've done the pouty look with the "Please" and that doesn't always get a positive response. It sometimes gets a firm "NO". It really depends on the mood He's in.

The best "Please" seems to be when I'm on the verge of desperation, and there is a pleading, crazy look in my eyes (I assume), I'm whimpering with need and have a hint of hysteria in my voice.

[Arria]

The best "Please" seems to be when I'm on the verge of desperation, and there is a pleading, crazy look in my eyes (I assume), I'm whimpering with need and have a hint of hysteria in my voice.

Exactly that.

[thenatural]

So glad you asked this question I too find this very difficult and my Master likes to hear begging a lot. I have found he is partial to the word "Mercy".

Since we don't have the time to bring out the authentic beggar in me very often, I am training to invoke it on command. He also does not care if it is authentic, but it should appear authentic. So I mimic what I have seen, I fake it. Also, I have found that if I take a professional attitude like "begging is my job so I am gonna give it my all" has helped me get past the "I feel ____ (insert your thought here) doing this attitude" If nothing else, he is pleased by my authentic effort to try to be as real as possible, even if I am not as convincing as I think I should be.

[bluefarie]

Some people have mentioned tone. That is huge w/ Daddy. I could say the exact same words but not in the proper tone and he will tell me I can do better and to try again. I wasn't very good at this until I remembered how a child acts when they really really want something. You can just hear the desperation on their voice. It's almost like if they don't have whatever it is, they will just die! (Think teenager borrowing the car for Friday night!) LOL I have to really be in a special place to do this very sincerely and that is exactly where he wants me.....desperate for whatever it is I am begging for and he is the only one that can give it to me! Due to the fact that our relationship is long distance, tone conveys a lot over the phone. Whimpering and kneeling help also for me to get into that desperate place. When I am there, it's not just a want anymore, it truly becomes a need and I will do whatever he asks in order to have it met. This is my submissive home or mindset or whatever you want to call it. I am fairly new to all of this and so I hope this helps. I have found so much info on here to be helpful, I just wanted to give a little back!



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