Rough Fucking

[Ozme52]

Sometimes I get PMed and asked for advice. In the course of one conversation I was asked for my definition of rough fucking... and well, I rather got a bit carried away answering...

And I just thought it was good enough to share.

Here's her question.

What do you consider rough fucking? i've read some stories (r/l dom/sub encounters) where it just seemed darker than i would like...spitting in her open mouth, straight pins in her tits....

[Ozme52]

Rough fucking is about taking her when and where and how I want. If she is walking past me and I feel like it, I grab her arm and tell her to open her mouth and thrust myself down her throat. Or I might stand up and put my hand in her hair and lead her to the bed or to a couch where I bend her over it... and if she doesn't step lively, lead becomes drag. And she better be fucking wet by the time we arrive because I'm going to push into her regardless.

Rough fucking is using whichever hole I want. No negotiation. (That's not to say if it had been a hard limit I would violate her limit... but she's not always in the mood and that is irrelevant... and sometimes makes it even better.)

Rough fucking is the position of my choice and if it feels good to me and not to her, or maybe even I'm hitting a tender spot, she takes it.

Rough fucking is if she isn't fucking me back with enough movement or enthusiasm I'll smack her ass and make her do all the work... at my tempo. I keep a ping pong paddle handy btw.

Rough fucking is having a dildo handy in case I tire, so I can pound a dozen orgasms out of her body because it pleases me to do so. Or to use it in one hole while I use the other.

Rough fucking is her so sore she winces when I enter her... gets wet, and cums when I tell her to do so... because I have her body trained to do so.

And while I'm not into needles (or pins) in the tits or spitting in her face, those activities may well be included. On the other hand, I do use nipple clamps or clothespins, or just my fingers, because she really clamps down tight when I do that to her... and I love fucking a tight pussy. Especially when she cums from the conflicting sensations.

[love2serve]

omg i wish you'd stop posting on here Osme!!!! (No, no i dont)!!!!

LOL - That was the most delicious description of rough fucking i have heard yet!!!! Please post a piece on how you train a sub to come on demand (would love to be able to do that) !!

[BelovedPet]

Sounds delicious.

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[jezabel]

OMG....thats all OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[StormKat]

Damn. I'm speechless. And quite hot & bothered too...

[tina2008]

That was so good, I'm almost tempted to light up one of my Sir's cigarettes.

[Ozme52]

whew!! fanning myself.

[leah06]

Even though the original question was not posted on the open forums, I'd like to respond to it, though. Despite Oz's eloquent description of what rough fucking means to him, which obviously struck a chord in a lot of us, there's not actually a rough fucking manual out there. You can get as rough as you like without doing things that are too dark for you. There's plenty to choose from and obviously you'll choose a partner who respects your preferences as well as your limits.

I think, in a larger sense, rough fucking is just another manifestation of the D/s dynamic. It says that the sub is there for the Dom's pleasure, to be used as he likes, and that they both enjoy it. There are so many ways of symbolizing that, don't worry if some ways don't work for you.

[His_blizzard]

Holy Jeez... I am so wet!!! You are an evil evil man....*goes off to get B.O.B*

[jeanne]

Rough fucking is about taking her when and where and how I want. If she is walking past me and I feel like it, I grab her arm and tell her to open her mouth and thrust myself down her throat. Or I might stand up and put my hand in her hair and lead her to the bed or to a couch where I bend her over it... and if she doesn't step lively, lead becomes drag. And she better be fucking wet by the time we arrive because I'm going to push into her regardless.

Rough fucking is using whichever hole I want. No negotiation. (That's not to say if it had been a hard limit I would violate her limit... but she's not always in the mood and that is irrelevant... and sometimes makes it even better.)

Rough fucking is the position of my choice and if it feels good to me and not to her, or maybe even I'm hitting a tender spot, she takes it.

Rough fucking is if she isn't fucking me back with enough movement or enthusiasm I'll smack her ass and make her do all the work... at my tempo. I keep a ping pong paddle handy btw.

Rough fucking is having a dildo handy in case I tire, so I can pound a dozen orgasms out of her body because it pleases me to do so. Or to use it in one hole while I use the other.

Rough fucking is her so sore she winces when I enter her... gets wet, and cums when I tell her to do so... because I have her body trained to do so.

And while I'm not into needles (or pins) in the tits or spitting in her face, those activities may well be included. On the other hand, I do use nipple clamps or clothespins, or just my fingers, because she really clamps down tight when I do that to her... and I love fucking a tight pussy. Especially when she cums from the conflicting sensations.

How many hours until April?

I sure do miss you, milord. In every way.

[denuseri]

Oh jezzus wept I allmost came reading this lol

Goes to slaunter around my owner teasingly in the hopes he will become aroused and partake of some "rougher than all get out" fucking me silly fun, any way he wants to the harder and nastier the better

[Arria]

*wipes off drool with both hands*

Thank you, Ozme, you put that into words very, very nicely.

[Ozme52]

How many hours until April?

I sure do miss you, milord. In every way.

[Dark Desires47]

Interesting...

All the replies were from subs. Good to see they were favorable otherwise I would question if they were good subs.

I have used my slave, much as you have described, and she is always appreciative and wanting more.

[Ozme52]

Interesting...

All the replies were from subs. Good to see they were favorable otherwise I would question if they were good subs.

I have used my slave, much as you have described, and she is always appreciative and wanting more.

Yeah... go figure... but then... I love being adored.

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I figured to get a couple of additional definitions from the dominant perspective... but regardless, it was a satisfying thread.

[SubmissiveDoll]

Oz, I always love your threads. Always fun to read.
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However, I'm a tad bothered by the 'good' sub comment. Just cause a sub doesn't like 'rough fucking' doesn't make her a bad sub. Just, perhaps, not the sub for you.

[judori]

I tend to enjoy your threads anyways Oz but this one left me a bit in the "wet, hot and bothered" category.

[Ozme52]

Oz, I always love your threads. Always fun to read.
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However, I'm a tad bothered by the 'good' sub comment. Just cause a sub doesn't like 'rough fucking' doesn't make her a bad sub. Just, perhaps, not the sub for you.

You mean the quote by DD47?

[Ozme52]

I tend to enjoy your threads anyways Oz but this one left me a bit in the "wet, hot and bothered" category.

You're welcome.

[thir]

Interesting...

All the replies were from subs. Good to see they were favorable otherwise I would question if they were good subs.

I wouldn't. "Good sub" is an individual matter between the sub and the Master/Mistress.

Good for one is bad for another.

Same goes for "rough".

[jonnyi's_nia]

Wow... that was... ya.... can't wait til Master gets home now!

[Ozme52]

Always a pleasure to be of assistance.

[SubmissiveDoll]

You mean the quote by DD47?

Yes, I did. Should have been more specific. Your post... sexy as always!

[Devious70]

My little peanut likes it rough in every way that has been described. Not that it stops me if she isn't quite so ready. She has described it as being "open" and "obedient" to my whim. I just call it down right fun.

I have never been into spitting but I do like to take over her mouth with mine. I have her open her mouth completely and tell her she is not to close it. I then cover her mouth with mine and essentially fuck her mouth with my tongue. She is forced to pant and breathe through her nose and I can feel the groans and vibrations as she whimpers through my tongue. she always ends up with a very very wet mouth when I do this and plenty of saliva is passed around.

Another rough activity is the un-expected taking of her ass. I lube up both holes and then just start fucking her hard. If you pull out far enough and have enough lube, you just never know what hole it will go into when you thrust back in...it took many months of this for her to learn how to be open for any unexpected thrust into her ass. The trick to making it "rough" is to do it often enough that she knows it is coming but not so often that the can tell when it will happen. <WEG> She has orgasmed from just the anticipation of the possibility that it might happen.

[Ozme52]

Nice.

[BlackDom32]

Oz, that was great and altogether too accurate. I'm glad I joined this site.

[Ozme52]

Oz, that was great and altogether too accurate. I'm glad I joined this site.

Welcome BD.

[thepast]

A bump. To make the subbies drool & give the Doms some new ideas for the middle of the week....

[jeanne]

A bump. To make the subbies drool & give the Doms some new ideas for the middle of the week....

I read his description at least once every few days. Of course, I have the advantage of being on the "receiving end" of Oz's philosophy...so drooling (and other kinds of wetness) is a given.