Hello mzkkbprmt,
Welcome to the site.
I recommend that you read everything you can get your hands on (there are stories on this page as well). You will see from your reactions/feelings towards the stories what you might like to try, and what doesnīt do anything for you.
You could also put an ad, seeking online partners, in the "Personals" section. Talking online about things is a good way to try out things and see which ideas appeal to you, and which donīt.
There is a chatroom on this page, too, and folks are usually quite helpful and friendly there.
Good luck.
Kind regards
Arria