Quote Originally Posted by Subs_Hubby View Post
So... not sure what to say except I am new here.

I am not really a Sub, and I am not really a Dom. While I have read quite a bit of literature and understand and find some of the information stimulating and consistent with my own growth through the years, I have never wanted to be dominated by anyone, and while I have had fantasies about dominating someone I would never do it without thier consent, so I have never truely acted on those desires.

T
Hi Subs_Hubby.

By way of greetings to all may I quote you on that since what you express is very much my own situation. While my fantasy world can be as violent as any (potential) dom's, I have a basic respect for women and would not want to act outside a consenting relationship.

Although I've lurked here for years by registering a few days ago I'm jumping in. This site is the best I've run into and the forums are superb. Now I guess I need to find an avatar, huh? Maybe an image of putting my toe in the water

NotSoFast