Hey,

I used to go to a therapist awhile ago- and I was thinking of going back, but I was worried about the same thing. I didn't know if I'd be able to be honest with her about my relationship without her characterizing it as unhealthy- so I am interested to hear what other people have to say about this. Is it just that she does not understand how it works? Or does she understand but just still think it's unhealthy?

If it really is a common thing for therapists to regard an M/s relationship as unhealthy I'd like to know- perhaps I'd look for one sympathetic to the lifestyle.