I mentioned in another post that I only learned about my submissive side when I was about 16.

If I play the look back for a pattern game... I can't find one. One day I'd enjoy playing at being some damsel in distress, then next I'd be the one tying up my cousins and laughing at them while I tortured them with disney movies. (hey I don't know a 12 year old boy who wants to watch Sleeping Beauty and Cinderella)

I'd be out playing football and fighting with the boys at recess (I lost a tooth when I was 8 that way...never did find it) but I'd be trying my hardest to be the best dancer and best behaved in my ballet class.

I was and still am a domineering control freak. I've always been loud, outspoken, and always insisted my way was best...not much has changed...except now it gets me in trouble. I'm learning...kinda