there is nothing more erotic to me than an over-the-knee spanking; hand to bottom. geez, just talking about it makes me wet. I don't think of it as a punishment, but I don't consider it a reward either. i think for me it's the humiliation of bending, bare-bottomed over someone's knee that arouses me so. Hmmmmmmm. I'll have to think about this more. Thanks for asking.