i want to be a performer.
my bdsm experience is about 6 months and mostly theory but have had limited practice spanking and paddling an ex-girlfriend.
i have no set views or opinions at present as i am want to learn more about bdsm and am willing to try switching to see both sides of the coin, as i am fairly dominant. my 1 thought about bdsm is it should be consentual, safe, and safewords must be adhered to and your partner should respect any limits.