Quote Originally Posted by Dea Menrfa View Post
I would have no problem with poly situations if I were given my due time. But in a recent circumstance in my life, I have been shown by his lack of time, exactly where I stand in his world. Therefore... I have begun looking elsewhere.
This is a typical wrong way of doing it - so called NRE (new relationship energy)
cannot mean that the existing relationship is neglected. It is a time where it is very important to make sure that the first partner is safe and can keep up.

Have you tried talking about it?