Quote Originally Posted by dzire2pleeze
there is nothing more erotic to me than an over-the-knee spanking; hand to bottom. geez, just talking about it makes me wet. I don't think of it as a punishment, but I don't consider it a reward either. i think for me it's the humiliation of bending, bare-bottomed over someone's knee that arouses me so. Hmmmmmmm. I'll have to think about this more. Thanks for asking.

Am also very happy to think some more about it.........and maybe just a little bit more - but before I get too distracted by thinking:

I consider it as being something we both enjoy, I could write an essay on why I think that might be, but it does not distract from the simple D/s and S/m pleasure.

I have never been spanked as a punishment (at least as an adult), and it seems an odd idea to me to do so, although I have come to realise that many do not feel as I do on this matter.

Being spanked, caned etc is a fun and pleasurable activity - in my head to associate that with displeasing my Dom would not only be confusing but potentially damage something very special to us, with the additional risk of be being deliberately naughty so I could be punished.

Punishment for me is normally something akin to corner time, where I am forced to think about my actions and how I have displeased him. This can leave me feeling so low, it is always followed by a time of reconciliation.

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