i'm more a non-theist than an atheist (doesn't believe there is a god as opposed to not believing in god).

if folk take comfort from religion, i tolerate their choice, and don't seek to hurt them by criticising the thought structures that bring them peace.

i attend church, read at the church, and embrace the involvement of a church scool in my daughter's life, because as a child i enjoyed the songs, structure, sense of security in knowing a framework defined my world. i will encourage her to ask questions and be critical, but not to the extent of indoctrination with my non-theist views. if she gets to that point of being a non-theist, i hope that will be through contemplation. meanwhile i tolerate her prayers and religious songs and Nativity Story, etc! it's a small price to pay for a secure little one.

and in fact i enjoy the sense of belonging i get now from attending church!