True Control

[ffion]

DJade,

...If a BDSM relationship does not start with integrity, it is doomed to fail. For those crucial steps cannot be skipped. The foundation must be strong.

i wholeheartedly agree... i count myself among the fortunate group to have a Master who has demonstrated integrity from our first meeting. for that reason i feel a deep commitment to him, as my Master, and as my Friend.

...The real dominant vows to hold that precious heart in their hands and keep it safe, even from themselves.

this brought a little tear... sentimental subbie!

true submissives are vulnerable and loving by nature - this is my humble opinion. in their desire to submit, some may attract unworthy recipients of that submission, and place their vulnerable heart in unworthy hands.

i hope your excellent post inspires any selfish "Dom(me)s" to look closely at their motivations and behaviour, and value the gift they are freely given.

Thank You for sharing!