What's the difference between a god and a goddess? Do the gods really have sex? (Do other gods bang on the walls if they make too much noise?)

Why is it important to worship the female rather than the male, especially if they are neither? What makes the mother goddess superior to the father creator?

I know all about Zeus's frolics with earthly maidens and nymphs, but I think he'd shag anything with a hole: "Greek love" and all that kind of stuff. And he's not real anyway.

Can gods be real? Does reality go beyond the natural?