how to prepare for a sodomizing?

[james_mysterie]

grrr. I just lost my whole post! Lucky for you, that means this will be the shortened version

I am jealous. My current injuries make all my posts short, of necessity.

I think your fears are natural and founded. It is going to hurt if there's no preparation/fun/foreplay/pleasure. Personally, I think it behooves your master to make your first experience most pleasurable and enjoyable.

Being relaxed, having no fears, and taking it slow and sexy only helps create a future desire and willingness to accept forced anal. A bad first anal experience can ruin it for quite a while! And truth be told, it's possible to have the most earth shattering, body quivering, mind numbing orgasm from anal.

My goal is to make her first experience safe and reassuring, through as thorough training as possible. The first time I bound my (almost) pet, her one word answer when I asked her how she felt was "safe". That was such a powerful moment for me: I never want damage that beautiful trust

I agree, with practice, the potential for pleasure is enormous. And the feeling of an orgasm from anal sex is beautiful for both partners. I would deny erish no pleasure that is within my power to give: her enthusiastic response to all training so far merits the greatest of rewards.

The pleasure I may give erish has to be limited at the moment. I'll say only that it is a loyalty issue outside of the relationship between myself and my beloved (almost) pet. If erish wishes to elaborate, she is free to do so.

Lube helps, but isn't necessary... other natural lubricants created during foreplay sure can help a lot

As long as one takes extraordinary care with how those lubricants get to where they are needed. No transfer in the wrong direction, for fear of UTI...

I do disagree with Oz- if roughly taken, damage can occur. It has nothing to do with the size of bowel movement you've previously passed. Not only is the sphincter and internal organs meant to push out vs. receiving, you're also not clenching your sphincter when going the bathroom. Being too tense and having your body reject a rough anal experience most certainly can damage. Rough being the operative word.

Definitely. Relaxation is the key to accepting the unnatural feel of the inward movement. The outward carries the pleasure of an essential physical process, repeated over and over again, for a duration we don't normally get to enjoy.

Good luck to you and I hope it goes well! You're half way there because you're open to the idea.

Groan!

Perhaps just your first time or two doesn't need to be forced... have the opportunity to get all hot by the idea.

Agreed