i recently had my first experience with a real live Dom, and after our 4 hour session he put me in the shower.
still feeling dazed confused and a little achy when i got out of the shower and went back to him in the lounge, i was confused as to weather it was appropriate to put my clothes back on, that he had removed from me shortly after we got to his flat.
so i stood there completely at a loss about what to do until he said "are you more comfortable like that you can put your clothes on you know."
then i just felt silly. Having met with once more since then im still having trouble finding the difference between when we are in session and what he expects when we are not.