True Control

[silverwind{MN}]

It is the dom/mes who THINK they have total control to whom it is an illusion. Control is held by both parties, but the dominant is the one who maintains the lead and remains in charge, thus satisfying both their needs and the needs os their subs.

well said, Mistress.. it takes both Control and surrendering that control, then building the trust and love.. that so that the relationship can grow to were it am today.