Quote Originally Posted by StillLearning View Post
And (I think) because the play is an aspect of our relationship, instead of the other way around, the necessary trust is already in place. And I've already had the taste of the joy a sub can feel in knowing her Dom is happy with her and trusts her. We were playing last night, and just the satisfaction I got in cradling Him after and knowing He trusted me enough to lay His head on my breast and go to sleep, I have a hard time describing it.
Oh, that's so lovely, SL. There is a deeper satisfaction in experiencing the love and trust within a BDSM relationship than in almost anything I know. It goes way beyond the merely sexual. It satisfies the body, mind and soul. I sometimes wonder what I fantasized about before I met my Master. How can you possibly gain any meaningful satisfaction if in your thoughts you don't have 'The One' sharing it with you? There can be great tenderness at the heart of what we do. I wish you much happiness. x x