Well the first things I did was self spanking, which I still do now from time to time actually. I moved on to other self done things. The first time I did anything kinky with someone was with a girlfriend. It was my birthday and she gave me a bday spanking. It started out playful but she saw that I was enjoying it and one thing led to another and I was naked and being spanked hard. It was actually rather unbelievable because it was so unexpected.