Thanks everyone. I really appreciate the input.

Oz: thanks for the giggle. I'll definately be using this fun idea.

jeanne and denuseri: thanks for giving me a way to remind myself even while at work and school. Practical and efficient. Something I need.

LolitaDoll: believe me I know. My teachers in high school were lucky if we used their full name. Usually was "Mr. B", "Flan-man", and apparently not all catholic school would just say Sister when talking to the sisters. cause oh no they weren't nuns cause they weren't cloistered. Sister C yelled at the assistant prinicpal over that one. And college... well I've always justed used my professors' first name.

yourlilslave86: I'm pretty much in the same situation minus the kids. He's not ready to take it out of the bedroom in any way.