I am currently in a online D/s relationship. mySir does things like give me tasks to do thru the day and it keeps me in constant reminder of who i serve and belong to. We are definitly far apart( me in the US and mySir in Sweden) but when we are talking over the voice or instant messaging, it is like He is right there with me.

I agree with fetishdj, there is soo much that can be done online. For some, online is just a warmup to a real life D/s relationship. For me, it has given me time to see my dedication to another. It takes a lot of work for mySir, i am sure, to give me tasks daily, talk with me, make sure i am punished immediately, praised immediately and still have a daily life. For me it is a test of my submission. Not just to Him but to this lifestyle period. If i can insert a vibe and go to the mall simply on the command of a person who is thousands of miles away, it says a lot about me and my submission and the control mySir has over me.

You spoke about webcam...lol any online subs know they can be your greatest joy and your worst thing in the house. I have not gotten one yet( well tried but the wrong kind). But i know once i do, it will take things to a different level with us.

I also agree that it is sometimes difficult to not have that actual physical touch aspect. It is something that W/we talk about often. So communicate about that and realize the reality that it eventually will be a definite need. You will know when.

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