As you put it

"I posted a question to the Dom's about domination and stated that it is easy for us, because we only have to find the right Master or Mistress to give ourselves to."

No, frankly it isn't easy for us. You make it sound as if you just give yourself to someone and they are responsible for any and everything you do. They don't, for you are a human and have thoughts and ideas and choices....do you not. The experience is what you make of it. Yes, the experience level of ones Dom has alot to do with it too and yes our Dom's are there to teach, guide and correct us as need for this is what they chose to do. They picked the role and played the part....(i personally have a Dom that did not pick nor play a part becasue it is natural and very instinctive for him for this is who he is)...as we picked the role that best suited us. So, please don't take being a sub lightly for i do not...becasue there is nothing easy about it.

Take a moment to read the following please:
http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/sh...709#post810709