Hello, I am uber new to the scene. I am in a play relationship with a Dom/top. I have only had relationships until now. Translate that to reallllly boring sex so far! So, NOW I am breaking out and I want to be a better bottom for my top. I have NO idea how to submit though. Apparently, I submit a bit, but I have been too pushy. How do I be a good bottom? What makes a top hot when their bottom does (fill in blank). I want to make my top totally hot for me and be the best bottom ever. I have NO problems letting my top do whatever, but I just don't know the parameters of good bottom versus pushy bad bottom. I don't want to just lie there, but, um, HELP. I am sooo lost on this and don't want to have my Dom keep saying tsk tsk!!