Well... if they are looking for r/l and don't give out their location, that's sort of going to make it difficult, ain't it? So you can ask them. Others who either are r/l or are strictly o/l don't want to give out their location at all... that's their perogative.

If you can't find a "match" right off... I might suggest you come into chat & chat with folks... people tend to be easier to get to know once you have a conversation with them. Also, I see you joined no more then 5 days ago. Give things time... this isn't a speed dating service... lol... stay active & you'll meet more and more folks.

Good luck.