This is one thoughtful as well as wonderful mail. Thanks.

No, you do not change on the inside except to get better, but there may be changes to take into account with the rest. So what? It is the law of nature.

BDSM is not for the young and beautiful, to be discarded at some fictional age. Apart from the idiocy of such ideas, the feelings involved are far too strong. It is for everyone, young or old, sick or healthy, fat or thin, this or that. Everyone.