Sometimes it is enough to just know that we are not alone and here for each other when there is a need.
We also have an in house Abuse Support Sanctuary found via the following link with instructions for membership that is more private than the open forum or in the social groups section of your profile pages.
I am also allways available to anyone that needs some help.
http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/group.php?groupid=6