help a girl out?

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Okay...so i'm new to this. gotta tell you i like typing in all lower case simply because it's easier...?lol! anyway, how does one figure out where they fit in? i can say without hesitation that i enjoy being submissive during sex and there is nothing i like better than being told i'm a good girl, but since i don't have a boyfriend or playmate in real life, how am i gonna explore my newfound interests in bdsm? i'm itching to start. can you help a girl out here?

Either seek out a Real Life group for your local area, or frequent a chat room. Either way you will make friends, connections and eventually find a person who piques your interest enough to want to play with them.

There is a chat room here, or you can find one on a few other kink sites around.

For a local group, search your local area for a group that has munches and such through one of these sites...

http://www.thedomsview.com/TDV/linksb.htm
http://www.darkheart.com/usalist.html
http://www.fetishscene.com/fetishscene/cgi/main.cgi