"you might be a little disappointed if you are hoping to meet someone in person on this site"
While it does depend greatly on the effort put into finding someone on your part, your ability to be patient, and your ability to be sociable/your social skills, believing that you can find someone, and having the determination not to give up, I think it is totally possible to meet someone here. I met my first real life sub here. It was the best relationship I had ever had at that point. The relationship we had was very rewarding, enjoyable, educational, and fun! She later, after we where together, met a dom on this site to whom she is now married. I have also met several online subs here. Including the sub I have now, and she's wonderful. All of this given the fact that I have always been somewhat shy, and socially awkward. It is only within the last few years that I have started to change in this area for the better. And that, quite frankly, I know very few people here, yet I have met one person, and one of my two real life subs has met two people here (one she liked well enough to move for & marry) begs to differ with you...