help a girl out?

[epiphany]

Finding someone real is like prospecting for gold; you may get lucky 1st time out, or you may have to sift a lot of gravel before you find your nugget. good luck in the seach; make haste slowly. Use your commn sense and learn and Use safetynets (including buried safecodes). Ask questions; the only 'dumb' questions are those unasked. Knowledge is power, and in this, can be difference between safety and serious damage. Finally, don't be afraid to say no, if what you are asked to do seems stupid, illegal, or dangerous; being submissive does not mean check your brain at the door with your clothes. If the supposed 'Sir' wants a doormat, tell him he can find one for a buck-99 at wally-world. And if all he wants is use of your holes, tell him to buy a blowup doll; they even have holes that vibrate. Unless he is interested in the you between your ears as well as between your legs, it is hard to build a lasting bond.
And on that, lecture is over...lol. If you have questions, this is a good site to ask; the folk are friendly, and well informed as a rule. it is a journey of self-discovery; bon voyage.

You need to register SIR....and introduce yourself please *wink*

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You need to register SIR....and introduce yourself please *wink*

Ooh, look who's getting all Domly on us!
Can I watch?

Srsly this is all such good advice and especially the reassurances to follow your own mind and heart when it comes to what kind of role you want to play in this kink multiplex. Trust yourself then it will be possible to trust others, although personally it's a lot of "two steps forward and one step back".

Some will not be worthy of your trust, know that going in. But the ones that are make up for it IMHO.