I agree with FirstBorn and Mastro and lots of other dom/mes on this site. 24/7 is not for most of us. I will go farther and say that I believe that MOST of the the people who post about living a 24/7 BDSM life are full of BS or are just experiencing a weekend high that will end very soon. Very few of those posters come back to post again about their new found lifestyle. Of course, there are a few that I have seen here, and a few I have met in RL, who are wonderfully content in a very structured 24/7 pairing.

For me, each and every time my him renews his submission to me, it is like opening a present. Its awesome. I don't want to open the present once, and just play with it for the rest of my life. Instead I see his masterful side, his strong side, his alpha side, his annoying pushy whiney anal belligerant selfish side, (and his loving, giving, smart, funny, and honest side)- and in the end I see him curled at my feet. Speaking for myself, it's great to be a domme.